Recently we watched on television, a young man who was obsessed with his former girlfriend and couldn’t accept the fact that the romance was over. This young man was sentenced to life in prison for her murder because he felt that if he couldn’t have her, no one else could either. His selfish and evil actions destroyed the family of this young lady as well his own parents and relatives.
Obsession is a very unhealthy thing and never brings good results because no one should be attempting to force themselves upon another. Much less, allowing that kind of fixation to lead doing violence. If the other person isn’t interested, people should respect that and move on. Not try to make that person fall in love with them.
In 2 Samuel chapter 13.1- 21 Amnon was obsessed with his half-sister Tamar. This evil fellow was so obsessed that he became sick, but he was able to work out a scheme with another bad guy named Jonadab, which resulted in the rape of Tamar and her being mistreated by Amnon. To make a long story short; Amon was killed over his sin.
No man or woman is worth destroying yourself and others, with this so called “love.“ If the woman doesn’t want you, walk away. If the man doesn’t want you, walk away.