Birth control isn’t something that the Bible commands people to do. The use of contraceptives is a matter of human opinion and should be left at that. The sex act between a man and his wife is not just for creation of a child, but is also for the fulfillment of human desire. Notice what the scripture said in 1 Corinthians 7:1-4.
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is well for a man not to touch a woman.” But because of cases of sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
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