This lesson certainly isn’t going to please everyone; and this is true because men love engaging in sex. When it concerns sex; there is God's way and there is man's way. God created the sexual act by telling Adam and Eve,” to be fruitful and multiply”. Gen 1.27-28. But He was talking to man and wife. Gen 2.24-25.
A man has no business having sex with his girlfriend because her body does not belong to him; and only in marriage can man even think about owning his wife's body and the wife, doing the same. 1 Cor 7 .1-4. Heb 13.4 1 Thess 4.1-6.
Why don't people just date? One is attempting to find a mate and the effort needs to be on accomplishing that. The couple doesn't have to be having sex and babies and neither do couples have to enter marriage being highly skilled in sex acts. Sex like anything else is supposed to be learned, and that is what God expects a couple to do. 1 Cor 6.18
According to the word of God, a person is to date the opposite sex, seeking a spouse in the process and remains celibate until marriage. People can remain celibate by not listening to Satan. You know that the devil is going to be saying it is unreasonable and too much to ask of a person. But that is all a lie. The devil just wants you to commit fornication and lose your soul over the sin. Don’t listen, man can resist fornication, and remain morally pure.
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. That is a person who understands what God wants and is living the way God expects. Everyone having sex, is living according to Satan.
A person might read this and disagree and I say, take it up with the Lord. I have attempted to teach His words, not mine. You can argue with Him about your right to commit fornication.